A thousand connections. When did one last feel real?

The people you love slipped into the scroll, somewhere between the notifications. Toldari is the quiet place to find them again, to remember what matters to them, and reach out before another season goes by.

The people who matter are still right there.

Toldari is a warm, private place to hold onto what makes them them, and a gentle nudge to reach out when it's been too long. Real closeness, kept close, and kept yours.

Remember what matters about the people who matter.

Toldari keeps the details that make someone feel known: their stories, important dates, and what you talked about last. It nudges you to reach out before too long, and saves your notes and plans after each catch-up, all private and on your device.

Get it on Google Play Coming soon to App Store

Live now on Google Play. Coming soon to the App Store.

Toldari home screen showing today's plans, people who need attention, and gentle touch points
The whole idea

A place that's about the person.

No audience. No metrics. No highlight reels to keep up with. Just you and the handful of people who actually matter, remembered and reached for, on purpose. Because Toldari works for you and no one else, what you keep here is never sold, mined, or turned into a product.

Your data is yours, full stop.

What you keep in Toldari belongs to you. It lives on your device by default, and the whole thing is built so we couldn't mine it even if we wanted to.

Never sold. Never mined.

No advertisers. No data brokers. No quiet second life for your private moments. We make money the honest way: people buy the app, so you never have to be the price.

We never track you.

No profile built behind your back, no behavior bought and sold, no one watching how you love the people you love. Toldari does its thing, then gets out of your way.

The whole idea

Built around the person, not the feed.

Toldari gives you one calm place to remember what makes someone feel known, nudge yourself to reach out before too long, and hold onto the moments worth keeping. No audience, no metrics, and nothing here is ever sold, mined, or tracked.

Show up like you've been paying attention

Keep the little context behind each friendship, so the next time you talk you pick up right where you left off instead of starting over.

Keep a rhythm with the people who matter

Choose how often you want to stay in touch with someone, and Toldari keeps the cadence, so no one quietly drifts out of your life by accident.

Private by design

Your people live on your device. Never sold, never mined, never tracked. You're the customer, not the product.

Read the full privacy policy. It's short, plain, and means exactly what it says.

What it actually does

Small things. The ones that keep people close.

Not a productivity app. Not a CRM. A quiet companion for the relationships you don't want to lose.

Remember the people who matter

How you met. What they're going through. The story they told you last time. Toldari helps you hold the details that make someone feel genuinely known, so you show up like you've been paying attention, because you have.

Toldari contact profile showing favorites, interests, important dates, and follow-ups for a friend

Gentle nudges to reach out

Life gets loud and people drift. Toldari taps you on the shoulder when it's been too long, a quiet touch point, never a guilt trip, so a friendship that mattered doesn't fade by accident.

Toldari touch points reminding you to reach out to someone you haven't talked to in a while

Keep the moments, not the metrics

Jot a note after a good talk, save a plan for next time, hold onto what's worth holding. No likes, no counts, just the real texture of a relationship, gathered around the person it belongs to.

Toldari catch-up detail capturing how a recent get-together went and what to remember next time

Yours, and only yours

Your people live on your device, private by the way it's built. Nothing here performs for an audience or feeds a machine. It's just for you, the way remembering someone always should have been.

Toldari settings showing on-device storage, check-in intervals, and notification preferences
Two ways in

Yours to keep. Yours to grow.

Standard is the whole heart of Toldari, and it's yours forever. Premium just adds a few more ways to stay close, for the people who want them.

One-time purchase

Standard

The whole heart of Toldari: a complete, feature-rich way to stay close to the people who matter.

$4.99 one-time Yours forever
  • The whole experience of staying close to your people
  • Remember the people who matter: notes, plans, shared moments
  • Gentle nudges to reach out before too much time passes
  • Private by design: yours, never mined or sold
  • Yours forever. It stays even if you try Premium and later cancel

Two good choices, not a good one and a better one. Standard is the heart of Toldari, and it's whole on its own. Premium just adds a little more for the people who want it, and your Standard purchase is always yours to keep.

Want the details? See the full pricing breakdown.

About Premium Coming soon

A little more reach. And a safety net.

Premium adds a few more ways to reach the people you care about, plus encrypted backups so your memories survive a lost or broken phone. It's a subscription for one honest reason: backups and connection features run on services that cost a little every month to keep alive. Even then your data stays encrypted, and we still can't read it.

  • Meeting helper

    Spin up a space to settle a time and place with a group. Everyone weighs in, and the result drops straight into a Plan.

  • Encrypted backup

    Back up your contacts, notes, and plans, and restore them on a new phone. Encrypted end to end, so only you can read it.

  • Private profile sharing

    Share your profile with one person you choose. Encrypted, expires on your terms, with no directory and no discovery.

  • Place suggestions

    Fast address and place autocomplete when you add a plan, so locations fill in with a tap.

Private by design. Local-first, and no ads, ever. Cancel anytime and your data comes home untouched; cloud copies are purged on a schedule.

Start with one person.

Pick someone who matters. Remember what you love about them. Reach out today. Toldari makes that the easiest thing you do all week, and keeps it entirely, privately, yours.

Get it on Google Play Coming soon to App Store